People seek counseling
or therapy for many different reasons. You may be having
specific problems such as relationship difficulties,
career issues, or loss. Or you may be feeling dissatisfied
with some aspects of your life, feeling the need to
explore options or gain more insight or a greater feeling
of well being. You may be someone who likes to look
at the world from a very cognitive and rational perspective,
or you may be more focused on emotional undercurrents.
Because people are so diverse in their personal styles
and their needs, there are many different approaches
to doing therapy. It may be helpful in choosing a therapist
to know what kind of approach they tend to use and what
style feels best to you. Here is a brief overview of
some of the most common therapy styles.
Brief Therapies
generally focus on resolving problems in direct and
practical ways. They tend to focus on reducing symptoms
rather than looking for underlying causes. The number
of counseling sessions is usually limited, and insurance
providers for that reason often favor this type of
therapy. Some examples of brief therapy are solution-focused,
EMDR, and Thought Field Therapy.
Cognitive Therapy
is also generally short-term and involves examining
the thoughts and self-talk that underlie negative
feelings or actions. It is usually combined with behavioral
techniques to change responses to distressing situations.
It is often used to treat depression, anxiety and
obsessive-compulsive disorders, among other complaints.
Body Work Therapies
access the mind through the body, with the breath
and muscle tension being key elements. Physical touch
and/or breathing techniques are used to change energy
and release emotions held within the body. These therapies
can be very effective with somatic conditions and
pain, as well as with people who have difficulty accessing
their feelings because of past trauma or abuse history.
An example of this kind of therapy is Hakomi.
Existential-Humanistic Therapy
focuses on responsibility, choice, and finding meaning
in one's life. It tends to be longer term and supportive
and explores self-esteem, identity and more global
issues of life goals and purposes.
Family Therapy and Couples
Therapy focus on treating relationships between
family members as a unit or between a couple. Often
communication skills are stressed, and various techniques
or approaches may be used.
Feminist Therapy
focuses on personal strengths and empowerment and
involves the client as an equal partner in the counseling
process. It also explores the ways in which culture
and society often limit perceived options and create
anxiety, depression and lowered self-esteem. Part
of the therapeutic process is deconstructing personal
obstacles and reframing them as political or social.